33 Kata-kata Maaf Untuk Pacar

Dalam hubungan, berbuat salah dan meminta maaf akan menjadi hal yang sering kamu lakukan.

Kita manusia, jadi memang sudah sepatutnya kita pernah berbuat salah, dan di kondisi inilah rasa cintamu diuji—apakah kamu tetap ingin mempertahankan ego, atau meminta maaf kepadanya? Ingat, meminta maaf bukanlah perihal ego siapa yang menang.

Justru dengan meminta maaf secara tulus pasanganmu akan melihat kamu sebagai seseorang yang jujur dan berani bertanggung jawab.

Jika saat ini kamu bingung bagaimana cara meminta maaf yang terdengar tulus dan romantis, I got your back! Berikut sudah Cosmo rangkum 33 kalimat maaf yang bisa kamu sampaikan ke pasanganmu.

Tapi ingat Babes, permintaan maaf tanpa perubahan adalah hal yang sia-sia, jadi setelahnya pastikan kamu benar-benar tidak mengulangi penyebab dari kamu perlu meminta maaf kepada dia di awal!

Ayo tengok, dan sampaikan salah satunya dengan nada yang tulus. Jika ingin hasilnya lebih maksimal, coba katakan sambil membawa setangkai bunga, ya!

Ketika Kamu Menyakiti Perasaan Dia

“I didn’t realize how my words affected you, but I understand now. You didn’t deserve that.”
“I see the hurt in your eyes, and I want you to know I’m working on being someone who brings peace, not pain.”
“I messed up and I won’t defend it. I just want to be better, for both of us.”
“I care too much about us to let my mistake go unspoken. You mean more than that moment.”
“I hear you, and I want to understand deeper, not just move on, but move forward with more awareness.”

Ketika Kamu Salah Mengucapkan Sesuatu Pada Dia

“I spoke too quickly and thought too little. You deserved more care from me.”
“I let my tone ruin what should’ve been a calm conversation. That’s on me.”
“If I could go back, I’d choose better words. But today, I’ll choose better actions.”
“What I said wasn’t fair. You didn’t deserve to carry the weight of my frustration.”
“You’re not the problem my delivery was. I’ll do better.”

Ketika Kamu Sedang Menjauh dari Dia

“I’ve been quiet, but not because I don’t care. I’m sorry if that distance hurt you.”
“You showed up for me, and I wasn’t fully there. I realize that now.”
“I got caught up in my own head and lost sight of you. That wasn’t fair.”
“You’ve been patient, and I want to meet you with the same effort.”
“I know you needed more of me and I want to give that, honestly and consistently.”

Ketika Kamu Melupakan Sesuatu yang Penting

“I overlooked something important to you, and I regret that deeply.”
“You deserve to feel seen not just remembered on special days, but every day.”
“I dropped the ball, and I know how that made you feel. I won’t repeat that.”
“You matter far more than how I made you feel. That’s something I want to prove with action.”
“Missing it doesn’t reflect how I feel about you but I know it still hurts. I’m here to make that right.”

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“We got tangled in the heat of the moment. I’m ready to talk calmly when you are.”
“I wish I’d listened better instead of pushing my point. Your voice matters to me.”
“Even when we disagree, I still care deeply. That doesn’t change.”
“I don’t want to be right if it means losing the softness between us.”
“Let’s take this one step at a time not to forget, but to understand each other better.”

Ketika Kamu Tidak Benar-benar Terbuka Dengannya

“I withheld something I should’ve shared, and I see how that broke your trust.”
“There’s no excuse for not being honest. I’m committed to rebuilding what I damaged.”
“You gave me your openness, and I met it with hesitation. That wasn’t fair to you.”
“I’m not proud of how I handled things. I want to earn back the trust I lost.”
“You deserve the truth even when it’s hard. I’ll show up with that, from here on.”

Ketika Kamu Mengecewakan Mereka

“I said I’d be there, and I wasn’t. I own that.”
“You counted on me, and I didn’t follow through. That matters to me and so do you.”
“This isn’t just about fixing things, it’s about learning to show up the way you deserve.”